Thanks so much sweet one, it’s lovely to hear that amongst all the negative messages lately <3
There has never been a time when someone has asked me a question and I have not answered carefully and kindly.
It is quite unfair to fabricate something like that.
Any time I have been less friendly on my page has only ever been in response to people attacking my character or people making claims at me.
Whether you actually know you are manipulating reality or have simply not taken the time to be informed…
I cannot change how you have perceived what is on my page.
I cannot change the urge that rises in you to negatively judge me.
Nor can I fill whatever lack is churning within you which propels you to search me out and express this to me.
I know who I am. I am happy with who I am. I am confident in who I am. I am satisfied with my behaviour towards myself and others.
I am not regretful or apologetic for anything on my page, everything I post and every word I have written has already been thoughtfully processed.
I hope for you that you can come to a similar point so that in the future you are able to search out and put energy into honest, productive and rewarding things.
I have never once in my life bashed someone for not being vegan, I’m really confused as to how you got that out of my response about the bees.
Someone came to me, an avid defender of bees, and told me how great they thought it was that they ate honey, something I clearly have previously disagreed on. I pointed out the logical flaws I saw in what they said. I didn’t call them names or say they are worthless. I didn’t attack their character or their esteem. So, come on, really.
How dare you say I do not give a fuck about other people, as if you know me? That is one of the most bizarre judgments someone has made at me. It is also a really repulsive thing to say, especially for someone who is apparently interested in spreading the love and not turning people away. Man, if I was an omnivore and you were the representative of veganism… I’m not too sure how safe I’d feel!
I care deeply about every living being on this planet, equally. Nothing in my bee response suggested otherwise.
If some people don’t like me, I am fine with that - I am not a mascot for veganism. I am who I am. If someone does not want to go vegan because of something I have said, then that issue is with them, not me. What some will love, others will hate - what a ridiculous battle.
Becoming vegan is a lot to do with respect, compassion, kindness, being humble, acknowledging and respecting living creatures - it is not about joining a popular group of people who seem friendly. I know being vegan is right because it aligns with my morals, not because other vegans I know were ‘friendly’.
I do the best I can to encourage people in my life to go vegan, and I have succeeded at doing so before, however, I really do not need to justify any of that to you.
Your tongue is sharp, ignorant and entitled so I would appreciate it if you do not message me again. Thanks.
I know all about how bees are treated, I have shared that information myself many times here on my blog.
I understand being vegan is not about being perfect, that in this current world there probably is no such thing as being 100% vegan.
However, I do believe that being vegan means doing the best you can under the circumstances.
So, how is not being able to buy fruits and veges that haven’t been pollinated by ‘slave bees’ a justification for a totally separate act, of eating honey?
Seems like a slippery slope.
The former falls under doing the best you can, the second falls under an unnecessary act.
Many medications that people sadly need to live contain derivatives of milk, does that mean we may as well just drink milk anyway?
I mean, it’s not like you can get the life saving medication you need without it currently requiring dairy cows to be commodified, why not go all the way and eat the damn thing?
Well the reason that seems absurd is the same reason that your example is flawed.
While the produce pollination process that you require to survive is out of your control, your choice of consuming a product that is unnecessary for your health is.
We may not be able to change the ingredients pharmacy companies use in pills that we may need to live, but that doesn’t justify or obviously follow onto us contributing more.
That last person did not ask me a question, they spoke at me. As if wanting some sort of validation that what they were doing was totally fine.
Someone came to a blog which has shared a strong opinion about bees and veganism multiple times, so it really is curious to me what they expected?
I do my best to embody kindness every day, you may not see that, but I am spreading love, especially for bees… seeing as there’s obviously still a lot of people out there who think it’s okay to short change them on compassion and respect.